How Toxic Relationships Affect Your Health (And What To Do About It)

A person who is chronically stuck in a low emotional state (also known as an “incoherent” state), such as anger, fear, or depression, will be sending that message out to people around them all the time. Consequently, this will affect the other person’s emotional and mental state, bringing them down as well.

When someone is stuck in a chronic incoherent state, it is usually because of some trauma from the past, and unconsciously, they will look to take the “juice” from others to raise their own vibration - and it is literally stealing life-force energy.

When you are aware of the health statistics linking emotional trauma with disease in later life, you’ll understand that it is an early death sentence, and stealing others' life-force energy is no joke.

Love and positive emotional well-being IS life-force energy, and it can be more important than nutrition and other factors.

As molecular biologist Dr. Bruce Lipton said:

“The most important growth-promoting signal in the world today for a human is love. It exceeds nutrition. A child getting love will grow. A child not getting love will be stymied in its growth. For example, in Eastern European orphanages where kids are given a lot of nutrition, but no attention, their growth parameters, their intelligence, their height, every aspect of their development is reduced by 30% or more, most of them becoming autistic.”

Unfortunately, Energy Vampires Are Very Real

They are one of the most underestimated environmental factors zapping your energy on a daily basis.

This energy stealing often goes unseen, because even the most caring medical systems lack the conceptual framework to see and address it.

Once you understand that every human has a body-field, and this field contains not just life-force energy, but also coherent information (which tells the biology what to do), then factors affecting this field in the environment are very important.

Quantum physics has shown us that everything is connected, and we exchange information all the time with our environment, so if we spend time in close proximity to people whose energy fields are negative and have low, incoherent, or destructive emotions, this can profoundly affect our own energy fields.

Examples Of Energy Exchange From Animal And Plant Experiments

Dr. Fritz-Albert Popp, the German physicist, who discovered that all living matter emits biophotons of light, also observed that fleas and small fish absorb light from each other all the time.

He also found that bacteria absorb light from the environment, and sunflowers will position themselves to absorb the maximum level of photons from the sun.

A Russian scientist called Burlakov found that when young fish eggs were placed near older ones, the old ones sucked the light energy out of the younger ones, which withered away.

Almost 30 Years Of Research By Heartmath Demonstrates The Science In Humans

Research by the Institute of Heartmath has shown that the heart generates the largest electromagnetic field in the body, and the electrical field as measured in an electrocardiogram (ECG) is about 60 times greater in amplitude than the brain waves recorded in an electroencephalogram (EEG).

Heartmath has also found that the clear rhythmic patterns in beat-to-beat heart rate variability are distinctly altered when different emotions are experienced.

The field around the heart can be measured several feet away from the body with magnetometers.

Heartmath has found that the heart’s energy field is not only transmitted internally to the brain, but is also detectable by others within its range of communication and can cause “entrainment” between two individuals' heart rate variabilities. Therefore, emotional states tend to synchronize when in proximity to each other.

Brain Synchronization

It is not only our hearts and emotions that synchronize in proximity to others, but research confirms our brains also synchronize, even when communication is non-verbal, and we are separated by a Faraday cage, meaning that we can pick up on thoughts of others through communication, which is non-electromagnetic in nature, but by quantum processes.
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If you want to have SuperCharged energy and well-being, you’ll need to clean up those energy vampires in your life!

Energy Vamping: Once You Are Bitten, You Have To Bite Someone Else!

It’s key to understand how someone becomes an energy vampire. When we feel the need (usually unconsciously) to steal energy from others, it is because we are depleted, and this usually occurs because of some emotional trauma from the past where someone else stole our energy first.

Energy vampiring occurs like a virus, so once someone (usually as a child) has their energy stolen from them due to a trauma, it means they have been depleted and need to “feed” off someone else, unless they get treatment very early and learn how to connect back to their own source energy.

A sign you have been infected by this “energy virus” at some point is if you feel or exhibit any of the behaviors listed below:

• Lack of clarity, confusion, “brain-fog”
• Tiredness, lethargy
• Self-doubt, confidence issues
• Feeling bad, shame, guilt
• Addicted to winning, victory, competition
• Anger management problems
• Unable to express vulnerability or show weakness
• Discount own needs and place everyone else before self
• Lack of boundaries with others - doormat or abuser
• Addicted to “doing”, can’t relax and slow down
• Low self-worth and never feeling good enough
• Lack of trust and sense of safety in the world
• Depressed and uninspired
• Dependent on antidepressants
• Feeling numb
• Feeling lonely and isolated
• Self-loathing and excessive self-criticism
• Addictions - Alcoholism, workaholism, drugs
• Compulsive, self-destructive, or controlling behavior
• Can’t stop eating foods that are processed and refined
• Addicted to drama and attention from others

Recommendations To Protect Yourself From Energy Stealing

• Learn to spend time alone and be happy.
• Learn how to raise your emotional state and become your own source of balanced energy by healing your emotional trauma (more on this coming soon)
• Understand your world and “know yourself”; understand your own traits, weaknesses, and strengths.
• Maintaining a good, healthy body and energy field is vital for healing trauma and becoming immune to energy vampires. Follow the rest of the advice from NES' SuperCharged course (accessible via your Total Wellness Portal) to energize body-field, physical body, mind, and environment.
• To become immune to energy vampires, learn to align with your own sovereign purpose in life.
• Learn meditation and neurofeedback to help non-reactive communication.

The Benefits Of Becoming Resilient To Energy Vampires!

Once you start to clear your emotional trauma and align with your sovereign purpose and “marry” your own masculine and feminine energies, your body-field clears and flows much more fluidly. So, the inevitable benefits to this are:

• MORE energy!
• Expansive, spaciousness, and lightness of being – joy!
• Resilience to others feeding – it becomes very difficult to steal your energy.
• Needing less sleep
• As the energy begins to flow throughout the body, there is an anti-aging impact, which starts in the face and eyes first.
• Body aches and pains disappear.
• Your eating habits naturally change - you need less, and you’ll naturally want more living energy foods.
• The body works more efficiently and can process all kinds of foods better.
• Weight issues normalize as you change the way energy is processed in the body.
• Less struggling in the mind, trying to figure things out, and you FEEL more as you are processing less in the mind.
• Synchronization of spirit, knowing, and access to creative solutions
• Reintegration of all parts and pieces of the fragmented self
• Relationships with those closest to you change, and your physical relationship with partner will change.
• Your body cleanses the body of toxins, which surpasses colonics and any other biochemical cleanse.
• You gain clarity of mind - you become smarter and clearer, and less energy is needed to process the information.

Tips To Communicating Healthy Boundaries With Energy Vampires

Suspend judgement – Remember, we are all energy stealers, sometimes, as covert and overt abuse is so prevalent in society at present: suspend judgement of yourself and others. Use discernment to identify when energy drainage is occurring.

It’s not personal – Remember, energy stealing behavior will have been caused by abuse in the past. Parents and people in authority will teach children how to relate to themselves and others. In other words, the behavior is not personal.

Boundaries are key – Dealing with energy vampires is all about defining and setting clear boundaries to protect yourself. This can mean everything from communicating to the person or limiting your time with them to cutting off completely. The appropriate action depends upon the specific case.

Empaths are at greater risk - Empathic and sensitive personality types are, particularly, vulnerable to having their energy taken by others, because their energy fields are so open. Many empaths and sensitives end up with chronic fatigue, often due to taking on the problems of family members and, unconsciously, trying to process the trauma through their own bodies. Empaths need to pay more attention than any other group to appropriate boundaries.

Prepare for the fall-out - However good you are at honest and non-judgmental communication, if the relationship is close or long-term, usually, you’ll need to prepare for a degree of disruption and fall-out when you withdraw yourself from energy stealers, as naturally, they won’t like it! Essentially, you were their “food”, but you’ll be amazed when they will simply find someone else to feed off, instead of you, when you set your boundaries.

Communicate compassionately but firmly - A large part of the problem when communicating with energy vampires about their behavior is that stealing occurs at the non-verbal energetic level, and the person doing it is, usually, completely unconscious of their behavior. The root cause of energy stealing is trauma, and usually, emotional trauma is NOT resolved verbally. It requires deeper consciousness work.